If you are a member of an Asian dating site, there is a real possibility that you will run into Asian prostitutes that are posing as website members. Most sites and services focused on Asia have methods of reporting such activity.
The unfortunate truth of the matter is that many people use dating sites to try to perpetuate scams of some sort. Some scams try to get money from you where others might try to trick you into a relationship under false pretenses. There are some prostitution scams that try to use online dating to feed their gimmick. This is becoming more and more common on Asian dating sites where some people go looking for a fetish.
But how frustrating is it to the person who is seeking a genuine long-lasting relationship only to discover the person they have been talking to for a very long time now is actually a prostitute just trying to score a date?
In The Philippines, there have been reports of a sharp rise in Internet dating scams affecting citizens from the United States, Canada and Europe. Between 2012 and 2015 such scams increased by 40%. A private investigator notes that many Filipinas are honest, beautiful women simply looking for a better life, an opportunity to escape the poverty. Others are honestly looking for true love. Other Filipinas, and increasingly so, are looking to cash in on the profitable industry of relationship and dating scams.
Scams are also on the rise in China, with Internet dating scams increasingly seen as lucrative money for the fraudsters. Many of the scammers aren’t Chinese at all, but are actually African or middle eastern men. There are no safety nets in China. Those who don’t have money do not eat, which means they may be more likely to resort to less than ethical tricks to obtain it. Prostitution is rife in the nation.
Clues To Look For
Some of the biggest clues to look for that will help you determine whether or not the site is legitimate include the following.
Lots of pictures of women that look like models. The odds are these are random fake photos of beautiful women, and you two different women might even send you the same photograph.
Claims to be a famous actress or other celebrity. If she really is, do you think she needs to find a date online?
Claims of needing to travel. For example, she might tell you she is a nurse who is trying to get to the United States to work in a hospital. She might even send you official looking documents including her (forged) nurse’s certificate. Then she’ll tell you she is stuck somewhere along the way and ask you for money to get her there. Don’t believe it.
Be wary of any of the following. If the prospective partner claims love too soon, if she requests money early on or often, if there are claims of financial trouble or other emergencies or if she claims a need for assistance with a visa, passport or flight.
Finding A Legitimate Asian Escort
There are many dating sites that cater specifically to Asian dating, but you’ll want to avoid unprofessional looking sites as well as sites that look like they were just put up recently. Some sites unfortunately will be made for the sole purpose of stealing your personal information which can be just as bad as running into an Asian prostitute looking only for money.
If you are sexually attracted to Asian women, then your best bet is to get in contact with an escort agency in the United States. Skip the dating scene — few of these women are online looking for a long-term boyfriend. Go right to the source, and do so without leaving the country. One of the most reputable agencies is myasianescorts.com, which is based in Las Vegas, Nevada, and specializes in hiring women from Japan, China and other Asian countries.
Sure escorts cost some money. But it’s a set, known fee, and both parties know exactly what’s going on. There are no games and no scams.
Want to get along great with your Asian call girl? Take cues from your date and keep in mind that most Asian women are more conservative than their American counterparts. Always remember to be respectful — no matter the occupation, these are still women who want to be treated like ladies. Stand out from the rest of the guys by showing that you care through listening and attentiveness. If she tells you that lilies are her favorite flower, bring her a bouquet on your next date should you seek out her company a second time.
Many Asian women don’t drink alcohol and could find it offensive. Instead, offer to go to lunch or dinner. Present a very clean and neat appearance. Hygiene is everything, and if possible, be clean shaven. Clean, trimmed fingernails are a must and remember that it is better to be a little overdressed than under-dressed. Take the time to get to know her, show genuine interest in her culture and beliefs and the odds are, you’ll find yourself having the best short-term relationship ever!
If you’re interested in Asian women, you may also be interested in (or find yourself in) a long distance relationship. If that’s the case, take a read of this article.
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