Are you looking for some easy seduction tips for men that will help you light a fire under your dating life? If that is the case, most probably you have already tried numerous things that don’t work and that might have even caused you to permanently miss out on chances with women in the past.
I’m a woman, and an escort to boot, so you might be thinking that as a guy, you’d like to get advice from another guy. Not so fast. Who knows women better than another woman? Face it, if you guys knew so much about us, you wouldn’t have to be working so hard to try to win us, right?
Additionally, as an escort I have a lot of contact with men (no surprise there). A lot of men I date are very open and candid with me — probably because they know they’ll never have a real commitment with me, or maybe ever even see me again. So I know a lot about what men try with women, and what they don’t understand about women.
Fortunately, you are about to discover a few key dating tips that will tell you how to please women and build attraction from the very beginning so that she will be glad to welcome your advances.
Let’s start with the mindset that you need to have in order to use these seduction tips for men successfully.
Women Want No Part In It
I bet you didn’t have a single idea that women actually enjoy and desire sex just as much as men do. Did you know that they actually welcome you seducing them? And I’m not just talking about someone like me, a Las Vegas escort. The tricky part and the thing which really gets men confused, is that women don’t want to play an active role in seduction. One of the most important seduction tips for men you’ll ever need to apply is the art of subtlety and indirect communication. Women are actually indirect and prefer their interactions with men to involve a little bit of mystery, curiosity and romance.
As long as you walk down this path when it comes to seducing a woman, she’ll be completely fine to be involved in the process. It becomes obvious of what you are trying to do as she gets turned off. It’s definitely a woman thing, they feel that the “magic” is drained out of it and they start to feel like an object and that is not good at all. This is, of course the most important thing to remember as you are applying these three seduction tips for men.
Don’t Try To Seduce Her
Most men make the mistake of thinking that they have to “get a woman to want to have sex.” But reality is that women already want to have sex, they just want to do it with a man that they are comfortable with. So if you can build attraction and make a woman comfortable, it’s much easier to take her to the next step. You can always start with interactions to building comfort with her while you’re out on dates. Most importantly is that getting her comfortable with being close to you and with touching of course.
It’s best to start out with nonthreatening and settle contacts, as she becomes more comfortable with the idea of you touching her, bring the game up to another level. This alone will make the second two seduction tips for men easier to put to use.
The general idea is that, instead of meeting her somewhere in public, have her come by your place and then leave and go somewhere else from there. Then, you won’t have to face with the awkward question of how you’re going to get her to come back to your place afterwards. Obviously, she’ll have to go there to get her car. And once you’re there, it’ll definitely be a lot easier to invite her to your place for a moment than to ask her to come with you halfway across town, with her thinking the whole time: “This guy just wants me to come back to his place and sleep with him.”
Yes, that may even be what she wants but do remember, she doesn’t want it to be obvious.
Don’t Chase Her, Get Her to Chase You
Advancing one step at a time is the biggest mistake that men make when they are trying to seduce a woman as it doesn’t have any teasing, pulling back or withholding. When a woman wants to hold your hand, hold off. What you need to do is don’t give it to her right away. Do the same thing with kissing. When you do kiss her or hold her hand, be the first to pull away. Always be the first to end your interactions with her and to be confident when pulling back from her advances. And if you tease her like this, it won’t be long before she starts pulling off your clothes.
Sure thing, of course there are other seduction tips for men that you can learn. But if you put these strategies into practice, you’ll find that everything else pretty much takes care of itself. Have fun!